Plus there is a question from Gemma about Common Purpose….

The challenge is directing that energy towards the things that you want to grow, and not the things that are bothering or irritating you.

Perhaps you have had some sort of negative experience in the past that caused you to have a good long rant about the situation or circumstance and noticed that the more energy you put into it, the more frustrated and angry you became. In the same way you have probably also had a similar situation but instead focused your energy on seeking a solution or resolution and noticed how motivated and powerful you became.

Wherever your energy is focused, there is power, you are literally dishing it out by the bucket load. So if you find that a situation is draining you or frustrating you, you must consider where your energy about that issue is being directed. Are you adding your power to a solution or to fuel the problem itself?

If you spend your energy worrying and fretting about all of the things you need to get done, but never taking the action to do them, you are using up 10 times more energy than you would to just get on and do the blooming thing you should be doing! The reasoning is simple, it’s because again your energy is directed in a negative way – your energy is going into worry and fret. This will zap your energy so rapidly that you just have to think of all the things you should be doing and are not, and you will instantly notice a shift in the levels of energy you have.

But when your energy is positively focus on doing the thing you need to do (otherwise known as taking action) the momentum you gain simply gives you even more energy. Your energy increases as a result of you being up and moving and taking action.

It’s a bit like how some people find that they feel more awake, alert and alive after going to the gym. The physical exertion , for some, fuels even more energy in their body. Even if this doesn’t happen immediately, most people do find that as a result of focusing on moving their physical body, they generally feel more alive and energised.

Someone once told me that completions restore energy to the spirit. I supposed that this ties in with what I have said already about spending time focused on what isn’t done is far more energy consuming that actually doing it.

Though there is a special kind of energy that arrives when something in life is completed. It’s that insertion of the final piece of the puzzle which give s a sigh of “It’s done!” There is a special kind of pride and relaxation that bring with them a relaxed energy, but a relaxed energy that is guilt free! Not the kind you experience when you are relaxing but also avoiding!

So in summery:

Focus your energy on solutions not problems

Use your energy for action taking instead of procrastination

Complete your incompletions and restore energy to your spirit.

By Gemma Bailey
www.NLP4Kids.org

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Hypnosis will only be used if children and parents agree to the treatment but doctor Madelon Ruige told the paper children are receptive to the idea.

Amsterdam’s Slotervaart hospital occasionally uses hypnosis, which led to questions in parliament last year.

The paper says hospital research carried out in 2007 showed that 85% of children with mysterious stomach pains saw their symptoms clear up with hypnosis. But only 25% of children given medicine got better.

Article from Dutch News.

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Greed is good.

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About 4 years ago, I fractured my ankle. It was something that was just meant to happen. The odds were highly stacked against me. I was in a nightclub on a  Spanish island and I was wearing high, high shoes (now affectionately known as “the ankle breakers”). The club had a tiled floor and they had just had a foam party so it was really slippery. Oh and there was also a tiny, tiny step which wasn’t marked out. And potentially I might have had a little bit of wine too.

So anyway, I slipped and my ankle bent in a way that isn’t normally humanly possible and there was a nasty noise. I tried to get up but couldn’t put any weight on it and knew it was bad, bad news.

I got to the hospital, had it x-rayed and they confirmed it was fractured.

The doctor wanted to operate and stick some pins in but I was due to fly home the next day and my Spanish can just about get me a beer but probably wouldn’t cover me for a hospital stay. So I told the doc to wrap it up in plaster cast and send me on my way.

He said they would have to plaster it with the bone back in the right place and that they’d need to push it back whilst plastering me up. This, he said was going to hurt quite a lot and said I’d need some pain killer. The only problem is that I’m allergic to morphine and he didn’t have anything else to offer me. He was pretty worried about this but I was fine about it and just said “I’m a hypnotist, I’ll put myself into trance.”

We got into the special plastering room and I started to get myself into state. Out of the corner of my mind I saw a nurse coming over with a needle. The doctor quickly told her something along the lines of “No need she’s doing hypnosis on herself” (but he said it to her in Spanish obviously.)

I used Hakalau to manage my state- breathing in for the count of 8 and out for the count of 4 whilst also using peripheral vision. I’d previously used this technique when I was on my NLP Master practitioner training and on the last day we did a glass walk. It was a big stretch of broken bottles and in order to walk over them without slicing your feet up you had to utilize the breathing technique and the vision at the same time. Some people who didn’t quite get it right did end up with cuts on their feet.

It took about half an hour and I was aware at times that some pain kicked in, but I quickly got rid of it by focusing my attention elsewhere.

The Doctors and nurses were suitably impressed and sent me on my way with some paracetamol.

Which I never took.

By Gemma Bailey
www.gemmabailey.co.uk

Archibald Lochrie was jailed yesterday after being convicted of the repeated sex abuse of a girl – starting when she was just five.

His victim, now 30, told a jury how the offences came flooding back to her after she went to a hypnotherapist.

Although she told the jury she had kept the “secrets” from her family for 20 years and had remembered what happened to her as a child, she was helped to recall it by hypnotherapy.

Lochrie, 42, of Meadowside Place, Airdrie, Lanarkshire, abused the victim between the ages of five and nine.

The attacks happened in a house in the town’s Target Road between 1986 and 1989.

He was convicted by majority by a jury after a five-day trial last month at Airdrie Sheriff Court.

Read the full article by the daily record.

The screen legend has been taught the power of suggestion and how to put people into a trance by a top Aussie expert.

Rick Collingwood spent 10 days with Mel at the actor’s home in Los Angeles teaching him the skills.

Perth-based Rick, 52, who runs Australia’s largest hypnotism academy, said: “Mel’s a natural. He’s got the look and the patter – as well as piercing blue eyes. He’s going to be a great hypnotist.”

Father-of-one Rick, who has been a hypnotist since he was just 12 years old, is a friend of Mel’s brother, Chris.

Through Chris, an introduction was set up and he and Mel have now become pals.

Rick said: “Mel’s brother Chris has been into NLP, neuro-linguistic programming, and hypnotism for a long time and he talked to Mel about it over the phone and Mel got interested, too.

“I was heading out to Los Angeles for work so Mel invited me over.

“I was with him for 10 days teaching him the technique.

“He is very, very interested in it. He didn’t say he wanted to learn it for a specific reason. He was just curious.

“I think he’s just interested in the mind and human nature.”

Read the original article by Monsters and Critics…

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